#AbortionMatters Because This is No "Bro's" Choice

My friend, Kyle's, response to why #AbortionMatters to selfish dudes

My friend, Kyle's, response to why #AbortionMatters to selfish dudes

By Sarah Durling, Survivors Outreach Veteran, Guest Blogger

#AbortionMatters?  Yeah it does -- check that out.  That's the mentality of the #brochoice movement!  They are pro-choice . . . er, excuse me . . . "bro-choice”.  This doesn’t actually mean anything like “yay! Women’s rights!”  It means, “I’m a selfish dork, and I want you to abort so that I don't have to worry about taking responsibility for my, you know, child – A UNIQUE HUMAN BEING”.   It really is exactly what “pro-choice” means, just from a man’s perspective.  So it makes women nothing more than an object of pleasure!  She's not a woman to be loved and respected; she's just a toy.  

If you are a woman (like myself) don’t you want to be loved and cherished? Don’t you DESERVE to be respected?

Men, stand up and be men!  You are no "bro" and you ain’t a man if you can't even step up to the plate and take on responsibilities!  If you don't think you are ready to be a dad --- don't have sex.  If you love that beautiful woman so much, make that commitment and marry her first.  

Or just hand in your man card right now -- because you are acting like a child when you think you can just "get rid" of that "problem" with abortion.  As a woman, I want someone who will be there for me through thick and thin.  But you know what?  I look out and see men who abandon their girlfriends because they are pregnant.  They deny that the child growing inside the womb is theirs, too.

And that is part of the reason abortion happens.  It isn’t simply because a woman “chooses” it.  The women going into abortion clinics feel like there is no one in the world to  support her or her child.

#AbortionMatters because this is no “bro’s” choice.  You don’t get to use human lives and throw them out.  #AbortionMatters because there really isn’t any “pro-choice” either – not when it comes to human lives.  You don’t get to throw a life out, however small that human life is, for any reason.

But more on “bro-choice” -- check out what Texas blogger Ben Sherman said about HB2 [the late-term abortion ban recently passed in Texas]:

"Your sex life is at stake.  Can you think of anything that kills the vibe faster than a woman fearing a back-alley abortion?  Making abortion essentially inaccessible in Texas will add an anxiety to sex that will drastically undercut its joys.  And don’t be surprised if casual sex outside of relationships becomes far more difficult to come by."

So the only worry for our bros in the "bro-choice" movement is "casual sex"!  Read that again -- it's disgusting.  Not only is THAT disgusting, but recently an article was put out by another "bro-choice" activist that was titled "How To Convince A Girl To Get An Abortion".

GAG. He lists three methods, and he suggests that you: "Explain you want to wait until you are further along in your career/life goals and you can afford to give your future family all the comforts of life you cannot deliver today.  Finally, explain if she has the abortion now, you will be able to plan your lives together so that everything is perfect."  Then he says when she agrees to have the abortion, DUMP HER!  

How very manly of you, sir.  How very progressive.  (You can read the full article here.)

Is THIS how men should be?  Is this the society we want our laws to influence?  ABSOLUTELY NOT!  Take responsibility for your actions!  Be a brave, responsible  man:  Respect women. Wait. It is not your right to kill for pleasure.

Bro...if you are really for choice, think about your brothers in the womb: don't forget about your sisters either!  They didn't get a choice.

How's about you become “bro-life” instead, yeah?  It's more attractive to see a guy stand up and take  responsibilities.  If you want to get some, give some.  #AbortionMatters  are about life.  But life isn’t all about you.  The abortion society is selfish, and that’s why it’s got to go.


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Sarah spent many semesters on the road with Survivors Outreach, and now interns at StandTrue Ministries, under Bryan Kemper, where she continues to speak the truth in love, and save lives. Her personal pro-life blog can be found on tumblr: Diary of a Missionary